Embrace Opportunity

It’s easy to want to be super mom when you combine holidays, family and children. Doing all the activities, attending all the events, making everyone happy. Even with super human powers, I don’t think it would be possible to do it all. Learning to find the balance between a positive amount of activity and a negative amount of attitude due to expectation is a challenge.

As an introvert it is naturally easier to want to satisfy everyone by saying yes while secretly dying on the inside with the thought of adding one more thing to the calendar. It’s important to learn to say no, which definitely gets easier with kids. Between my dog and my very curious one year old, no gets uttered in a variety of iterations throughout the day. However, it’s also important to not worry so much about the perfect and embrace opportunity. Like when you find your child contentedly eating mini chocolate chips that they have just dumped all over the floor. Sometimes you just have to sit down and appreciate that smiling chocolate covered face.

Tomorrow we take time to remember an imperfect situation. A baby, in a feeding trough, surrounded by the stench of animal stalls and who knows what kind of dirt, pests and insects. I don’t know about you, but as a mom with a newborn that would have freaked me out a bit. Yet, I have a feeling Mary embraced opportunity and chose to treasure the moment by enjoying that little, perfect face.

In the quiet and the chaos, be thankful for the moments and the one who gave us the chance to embrace opportunity.

Merry Christmas


New York, New York

At the beginning of December I took a quick trip to NYC to enjoy the holiday decorations and a fun girls weekend. We decided to stay on the Upper West Side at the West Townhouse. If you are looking for a non-hotel experience, I highly recommend! Each of our rooms featured a full NY sized kitchen which worked out well for a quick breakfast. Being a very busy time of the year , I appreciated being able to retreat back to a quite part of town at the end of the day. Our hosts were very accommodating and gave us great tips for navigating around the city. We were positioned 2 blocks from Central Park and were surrounded by grocery stores, coffee shops and quaint restaurants.



Ice skating in Rockefeller Center is an iconic winter scene. Yet, many may not realize there are multiple ice rinks around the city and the the one at Rockefeller Center is the smallest and by far the busiest.  So, we stopped at the one in Central Park and the view was everything I had expected and more.


The lights, colors and vibe of the city during the holidays is a true experience.  While crazy busy, the festiveness of the people and the beauty of the city makes New York a truly magical at the holidays.


We decided to take a walking tour of the holiday windows.  At first we were a little skeptical thinking that having a guide wouldn’t provide that much benefit, but by the end of all 30 blocks we sure were glad.  We would have gotten so lost, especially as we were fighting the masses around Times Square.  My favorite windows were at the end of the tour at Bergdorf Goodman.  I also enjoyed the interactive windows featuring a break dancer and ice skater who made an appearance every hour. We stopped for dinner at Patsy’s Pizza and enjoyed a delicious pepperoni pizza that rivaled my memories of Lombardi’s pizza from my last visit.



When in New York, you have to go to Broadway! We saw You Can’t Take it With You and Love Letters, I enjoyed and would recommend both. Though, the theaters were definitely not made for long legs. Walking through Times Square after the shows reminded me of Frank Sinatra’s lyrics of a city that never sleeps. Between the lights and the crowds, you forget about the fact that is quickly nearing midnight. We stopped for cheesecake at Juniors, along with multiple other theater goers. It was insanely busy, but continuing the tradition of after show cheesecake was certainly worth it. As we were waiting for a seat, we marveled at the sheer number of people crammed into the little restaurant and the size of the dinners they were eating. Everyone wants a 6″ high sandwich on rye with fries at 11:30, right? Ugh…we didn’t even finish our cheesecake pieces. Uber proved to be a great way to get home after a show, especially with the soppy weather outside. If you aren’t sure how to hail a taxi, put the Uber app on your phone and let it do the work for you.

There were multiple Christmas markets around town, all of which were fun to browse.  The very wet weather kept up from visiting some of the outdoor markets, so we made a stop at one of my favorite places in New York – Chelsea Market. Apparently everyone else had the same idea we did on that rainy day, but we squeezed through the masses like every other hot spot in NYC. We browsed multiple local food spots from Farm to Table to mini donuts. Shopping was of course mixed in to food browsing and I scored 40% off the sale racks at Anthropologie! We dodged in and out of Ugg Australia and Sorel on our way to a coffee shop across the street. To all NYC goers, I recommend taking coffee or cafe breaks during your visit. There is so much to see and do that just taking a few minutes to sit, people watch and process is a great way to enjoy the city, yet so easily missed. It’s also a great opportunity to charge your phone.

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The sun finally came out on our last day. We walked across Central Park to the Met, where we joined a group of ladies and one brave male tour guide for a three hour jaunt through the museum. Despite being exhausted at the end of the tour (note to self – take walking tours at the beginning of the trip next time), it was fantastic way to get a good overview of such a vast museum and I learned so much more than I would have on my own. The tour was hosted by Walks of New York and I give them an A+ for experience. Our tour guide was extremely knowledgeable, extensively traveled and even provided our group of over a dozen ladies with a chocolate break mid tour. It’s hard to make museum’s a priority when in New York, but if you have more than a weekend, definitely consider it.

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The airplane back home usually carries one exhausted Krista, but I can’t wait to visit again!

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